Depending on what you feel drawn toward, some of the avenues we might explore include:
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
a compassion-based approach that supports healing through building loving relationships with all the various parts of ourselves
You’ve probably found yourself saying things like “part of me wants to do this thing, but another part of me would rather not.” What if we lean into this idea that we are made up of various “parts”? What if we came to discover that all of our parts are trying to serve an important purpose — even the ones that are really embarrassing or that get us into trouble? What if you were able to help ease the suffering that some parts have been carrying, maybe for a really long time? What if other parts were able to let go of strategies that are no longer serving you? What if all the different parts within you were able to feel more relaxed, and find more harmony and balance?
Mindfulness
a mind-body approach focused on developing awareness and self-compassion
What if you started to slow down? What if it felt possible to turn toward challenging experiences and emotions instead of running away? What if mind/body felt like a comforting place to come home to? What if you felt connected with your deepest wisdom? What if you greeted yourself with love and compassion, rather than judgement? What if you felt a deep trust and sense of ease with yourself and the world around you? What if you felt at peace with your past and present?
Narrative
an approach centered around creating new stories about ourselves based on what is important to us
What if the story you’re used to telling about yourself is not The Truth, but just one possibility, just one way of connecting the dots, like a constellation in the night sky? What if your story is much more rich than that? What if you could connect the dots in different ways, and draw a new constellation that puts importance on your values and strengths?
Cognitive-behavioral
an approach based on the idea that changing our thoughts and behaviors can change how we feel
What if the worries, concerns, and negative messages that come to mind are just ideas, and not truths? What if these ideas didn’t have such a hold over you? What might you do differently? How would things feel different in your life?
Strengths-based
an approach focused on using our strengths to overcome obstacles and live the life we want
What are your skills? What are your talents? How can you put these to work to help resolve or get through challenges?
Medicine wheel
an approach based on Anishinaabe teachings that highlights the importance of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual balance to achieve well-being
What is needed for you to feel physically healthy and safe? Do you feel emotionally healthy, or is there something missing or in need of healing? What kinds of activities help your mind feel active, engaged, and creative? What types of connections and spiritual practices (broadly speaking!) give meaning and vision to your life? Finally, what is needed to bring body, heart, mind, and spirit into balance?